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Four year old smiling with his parents

Important Milestones: By the End of Four Years (48 Months)

 

Social

• Interested in new experiences

• Cooperates with other children

• Assumes character roles in dramatic/ pretend play (i.e. Plays "Mom" or "Dad")

• Increasingly inventive in fantasy play

• Negotiates solutions and conflicts

•Would rather play with other children than by himsef

•Talks about what she likes and what she is interested in

 

Emotional

• Imagines that many unfamiliar images may be "monsters"

• Views self as a whole person involving body, mind, and feelings

• Often cannot tell the difference between fantasy and reality

 

Cognitive

• Correctly names some colors

• Understands the concept of counting and knows a few numbers

• Tries to solve problems from a single point of view

• Begins to have a clearer sense of time

• Follows three-part commands

• Recalls parts of a story

• Understands the concepts of "same" and "different"

• Engages in fantasy play

 

Speech Sounds (Articulation)

• Speaks clearly enough for strangers to understand

• Usually talks without repeating syllables or words

• approximatly 90% intelligible

 

Language

• Talks about activities at school or at friends' homes

• Talks about what happened during the day. Uses about 4 sentences at a time.

• People outside of the family usually understand child's speech

• Answers simple "who?", "what?", and "where?" questions

• Asks when and how questions

• Says rhyming words, like hat-cat

• Uses pronouns, like I, you, me, we, and they

• Uses some plural words, like toys, birds, and buses

• Uses many sentences that have 4 or more words

• Speaks in sentences of five to six words

• Tells stories

 

Gross Motor Skills (Movement)

• Hops and stands on one foot up to five seconds

• Dresses and undresses independently

• Goes upstairs and downstairs without support

• Kicks ball forward

• Throws ball overhand

• Catches bounced ball most of the time

• Moves forward and backward with agility

 

Fine Motor (Hand and Finger) Skills

• Copies square shapes

• Draws a person with two to four body parts

• Uses scissors

• Draws circles and squares

• Begins to copy some capital letters

 

Developmental Health Watch

• Cannot throw a ball overhand

• Cannot jump in place

• Cannot ride a tricycle

• Cannot grasp a crayon between thumb and fingers

• Has difficulty scribbling

• Cannot stack four blocks

• Still clings or cries whenever parents leave

• Shows no interest in interactive games

• Ignores other children

• Doesn't respond to people outside the family

• Doesn't engage in fantasy play

• Resists dressing, sleeping, using the toilet

• Lashes out without any self-control when angry or upset

• Cannot copy a circle

• Doesn't use sentences of more than three words

• Doesn't use "me" and "you" correctly

• Experiences a dramatic loss of skills he or she once had

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